A couple who recently moved into their home have taken to social media for advice after claiming their neighbour’s aggressive and threatening behaviour has left them feeling unsafe in their own property.
The man explained that the trouble began almost immediately after moving in a few months ago. On one evening, while quietly attaching a plywood back to an IKEA wardrobe with a small hammer, the neighbour began furiously banging on the shared wall. Hoping to smooth things over, he went to apologise and ask about suitable times for DIY work — but before he could speak, the neighbour allegedly shouted threats and charged at him.
Despite restricting any noisy work to between 10am and 5pm, the couple say the hostility has escalated. They claim the neighbour now stares at them, mouths insults when they pass, and has created an unpleasant environment by allowing dog waste to pile up in his garden, which they say causes a foul smell in their home.
Guests have reportedly remarked on the neighbour’s intimidating behaviour. The couple are now worried the situation could turn violent and have asked the online community whether they should involve the police, environmental health, or seek mediation.
Dozens of commenters urged them to log all incidents, contact the police’s antisocial behaviour team, and report the dog waste to environmental health. Others suggested installing security cameras — while being mindful of privacy laws — and keeping a detailed diary of events to build a case if authorities need to step in.
Some shared their own experiences of difficult neighbours, warning that legal processes can be slow, and recommending the couple consider moving for their own peace of mind. One poster wrote: “Once a home doesn’t feel safe, then leave.”
The couple have said they are now leaning towards finding somewhere else to live, but are still concerned about the costs and practicalities of moving.
